The chase isn’t so thrilling

If I have to keep chasing you, I’ll eventually lose interest in you. The only things I chase after are my success and my personal happiness, but placing that happiness around one individual is not something I want to do. I’m just not about that. I refuse to always be the initiator, always expressing myself, just to get and keep your attention. I am very honest with my intentions and have no problems expressing my interest in you, but I can’t be the only one doing it. If that’s not enough for you, that’s fine, just don’t keep me hanging on. If you won’t recognize my presence, I can’t adequately court you. I can’t express myself to someone who won’t even engage with me. That’s not my idea of courting or romance. I deserve more than that.

Title: Momentorium Artist: brandon* 18 plays

thephadedlife:

Brandon* (@eyelovebrandon) - Momentorium

Yo my homie has beats for DAYS… ayo this reminds me of early to mid 90s joints… Peach Fuzz and all that there… yadameanski!

i appreciate that homie!

Courting

June 2008:

Me: “I have my heart set on courting you.”

Girl: That’s so cute. But I kind of like thuggish guys. Sorry, can’t help how I feel.

Me: (heart breaks) “Alright.” *walks away with hands in pockets, eyes toward the sky.*

May 2013 Facebook post:

Girl: “Why don’t guys court women? I want a guy to pursue me genuinely. Not these thuggish dudes that approach me.”

Me: *Logs off Facebook and walks away with hands in pockets, eyes toward the sky.*

Regarding Mentorship

If I can’t relate to you, I don’t want to be mentored by you. It’s not just your victories, rewards and achievements that help me understand who you are, but also your insecurities and failures. The real strength of any person is knowing their limitations, and you will never be as powerful as you can be until you know what your weaknesses are.

Don’t live by other people’s standards.

He’s not a loser if he’s 30 and lives with his parents. She’s not a hoe if she had a baby out of wedlock. They’re not stuck up if they chose not to date someone they’re not attracted to. There are thousands of reasons people do what they do, and even more reasons people are in the situations they’re in. We need to be more understanding of people. A little bit more caring, and a little bit more patient. Just speaking for myself, but Its taken me a long time to understand that I can’t live by society’s standards or people’s expectations.


Its taken me a long time to understand that I can’t live by society’s standards or people’s expectations.

Nostalgia.

Nostalgia.

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If you tell me that you “love me”, trust that you will need evidence to support your statement. I don’t have time for people who use meaningful words casually to advance their own agendas. Love has a foundation.

Current lock screen.

Current lock screen.